Love is like a rose

A rose..

Beautiful and delicate yet has deathly thorns.

Love is exactly like a rose,

it's beautiful but yet has so many obstacles around it like the thorns on the stem.
I'm talking about love in general, friendship, relationship, family, etc..

Friendship..
As I being to grow older, I somewhat feel as though true friends are getting lesser. Yes, you meet a lot of people walking in and out of your life but they are like shadows lurking in the dark and will be gone when the sun is up. Most of them would be there to laugh with you but how many would remain to cry with you? Once my friend came to me and say,"I find a lot of people are just being friends for the sake of using me." This is a point I agreed on. I've seen people who would be nice to you and stick to you when they want something. After getting what they want, they'll just go "poof!" and vanish! Like a leech that falls off after sucking enough blood from the host. While some.. You might be close initially but somehow time will test the friendship.

I would say the best way to test your friendship is when you are going through a hard time. Count the ones who really care, not those who only want to hear a story. Cherish them!


Relationship..
Everyone's ideal idea about relationship is that it only concerns the two individuals in it but in reality, it was never like that.

Friends, family and public are always getting in the way as how you have to go through the thorns to get the beautiful rose. Never forget the disagreements and arguments in between, either they'll make it better or break it once and for all. Tolerance, patience and understanding are really crucial, especially communication. Without that, how is trust and honesty build and what are they to be build on? Have a balance for everything and always check your priorities so that you don't miss out on anything. Listen to your other half and figure out ways to make things better together, as it bonds you closer and it'll be an achievement as a couple.

If you ever find a guy who loves you for who you are and most of the time you are happy rather than sad, you might just found yourself The One.

Family..
Love from family..
Is like a dethorn rose, easy to hold on to and you can enjoy its beauty without much worries. It's love without the need of returns and sacrifices are done willingly for each other. On the days when you feel like you have no one to turn to, don't forget that you would always have them behind you giving you all the support needed. As any other forms of relationship may vary, this is one that would last a lifetime.


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There's no specific reasons for this post. Just a random rabble.

Much loves, xoxo.